Is your lover a thoughtful guy?

I'd just briefly express this in brief scenarios,

Case 1) Walking

does your boyfriend walks infront of you so fast that you can't catch up?
or
is he always beside you sheilding you from the crowd?

Will you get turned off when your lover ain't beside you instead you're rushing to walk with him with a limp leg (injured , he knows) always?
with such a crowd in town on the weekends,
when ask, are you rushing?
No.. you're supposedly shopping..

Case 2) Shopping

a) You're not a materialistic person, but just wanting a little inexpensive gift that you like when you see shopping with your boyfriend..

Does he buy that gift for you that you like?
or
You guys went out plain boring shopping all the time without having to buy anything at all most of the time...?


b) You bought something nice for him, he don't even plan on having intention to wear that thing, not because its not nice, but its because its without a brand, even a simple toiletrie bag, giving you the excuse that he finding it troublesome to use when you wanting good for him to improvise in getting himself organise..

Will you dare to buy more things for him?
its sad when your sincerity is not being appreciated.


c) at some point, you two are walking around, 'window shopping' again

something caught his attention in a shop,
is he a kind which he'll walk in to look around in the shop? or he's rather to be standing away in a distance with you beside blocking the passageway straining his eyes?

Case 3) Your mother's birthday

your boyfriend is invited along for dinner treat too.
When ask, is he getting a gift?
he'd says he doesn't know what your mother likes,
even a birthday cake?
he'll reply plainly he doesn't even know what your mother will choose also..
You'll have to repeatedly ask and worry for him, because you want him to shine infront of your parents...

Will your boyfriend make an effort at all or he doesn't even bother to?

Case 4) Doing things together

In eveydays routine, you both grab dinner and then to your place,
you've got your interest to creating art pieces for upcoming events,
He's watching tv on bed, and you on the bedside thought you can do your own thing,
but instead he demand for you to lie beside him and cuddle watching tv,
You're not asking him to help doing your art pieces but you have to stop and be beside him watching him every minute.

You've to even seek approval to do your own things?

Case 5) Your boyfriend's lifestyle has always been timed,

he's already a scheduled person, nothing much he wants to do to compromise into anyone, if he does, he has complains... big fuss about all his own mood swings..
whinning and whinning..

Will your boyfriend be a flexible person?

Case 6) being indecisive

Your boyfriend is like a woman, or worst,
being so indecisive in whatever things,
to eat what, to buy what...
婆婆妈妈的,

You have to find a sit some place till he decides...

Case 7) Lending a helping hand

You're carrying alot of stuff,

Will your boyfriend help you carrying some stuff?

Case 8) Watchin movies

a) Your boyfriend gets couple sits,

but doesn't like 'heads on shoulders', like what normal couples do to cuddle themselves together,
he'd rather have his elbow rested on the arms rest,
so instead why get couple sits when you don't have to lift the arm rest..

you can only envy why other couples can do so.

b) When watching the movie, then only he likes to watch you,

he'll glare at you suddenly for a long time, you do look back at a few times at start then after if you do not look back in response, then he'll ask why didn't you look at him.. we're watching movie right?

does this sound ridiculous?

Case 9) In the loo

a)He doesn't flush the toilet bowl

b)He doesn't wash his hands

Case 10) Dining

how turn off could it be when you see him trying to pick his teeth using his fingers in public..